Posts by Ann Garvin
I think this is about all of us.
While this letter seems like it’s about me, I wrote it thinking about you, me, all of us. We live in a world that asks too much of us. I had a bunch of medical tests, then broke my toe, and then had a minor flood in my basement. I don’t want to talk about…
Read MoreWould you like to travel with me?
Would you like to travel with me? It’s no secret I love to travel. The New Yorker published an essay called “The Case Against Travel,” and I thought about reading it, and then clicked away and packed my suitcase to visit my daughters, one in Minneapolis and one in London. When I am in unfamiliar…
Read MoreWait, what happened next?
It’s been a minute since we chatted. and I need to know what’s happened in your life since we met, e-met or chatted in Target. Or at a conference, in the elevator, standing in line for the magic elixir (coffee). So tell me, fill me in. For example: I learned that one of you is…
Read MoreIn Camp We Trust
In Camp We Trust. “I want to bring everyone to Northern Wisconsin to the camp I worked at as a brand new nurse. The camp I used for the setting of Bummer Camp. I want people to live inside this book and experience the magic of sleepaway camp. I want them to be the camp.”…
Read MoreMore Jim
More Jim. Hi all. I have a lot of hot topics to tell you about, but it seems that what people really want is more Jim. Jim who? You ask? Jim is the man I’ve been dating after being single since 2010. People know about him because I went on a date with a different…
Read MoreI Saw My Smile Lines. He Saw My Smile
MODERN LOVE: He Wanted to Date Younger Women Which made me angry at him — and then at myself I published an essay in Madison Magazine about a meet-up where I asked my date, who was my age, 62, how online dating was going for him. Right to my face, with an open smile, he said…
Read MoreGood For Me
Good For Me This post went viral with 6 million, mostly nice views. It was a wild ride and if you didn’t read it, I thought you might like to. I am 62 years old, single, and recently, after watching “Love Actually” for the 17th time — toxic though it may be — I downloaded a dating app and…
Read MoreCan I be real a second?
“Can I be real a second? For just a millisecond? Let down my guard and tell the people how I feel a second?” –George Washington in Hamilton. Hey people, here’s the truth for those of you on Instagram thinking my life is a series of naps, writing, and travel. I’m terrible at vacationing. Picture this:…
Read MoreI’m A Nice Lady, I Promise.
I’m a nice lady, I promise. Remember me? That nice lady whose email newsletter you signed up for and then stopped writing it. I promised an essay a month, book recommendations, writing and reading retreat announcements, and a few choice words about things that bug me because that’s what besties talk about. Not to be…
Read MoreCinderella Under Pressure
Cinderella Under Pressure. I write books about women who do too much in a world that asks too much from them, and I saw one of these women just the other day. The woman I am thinking of was at a gas station, responding with incredible grace and dignity while under great duress. After filling…
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